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As Sainath asked I came to Anna arch, there came Elavarasan to pick me up to Mcdonalds where we planed to celebrate. It was a real hot day unable to stand outside for a long time we stepped into the geek world of para-ab-normal's who had habit of forgetting mother tongue ;) There are places in every city of India where if we speak native language we are uneducated and brute! I always wonder about this weird environment, in what way speaking your language can deteriorate your status!




That alien land suffocated us two for sometime before Sathya, Sai, Suresh came they went to buy a shirt for Vibin as a gift.  March 7th was Vibin's B'day that is the reason we are going to have a party, Vibin and Azar came then. The place stabilized after peoples around me started speaking 'Tamil'!! Usual over-sized buggers, unusual soft drink in cup and complimentary sauce packets quickly disappeared, after that we went to Anna Nagar park. Did I forgot something still I can smell sauce ah! tissues!! we saved water to save earth!!


Highlight of the day, there we had obvious discussion about life ;) Its almost a year since final examz of engineering we had lot of issues and happening to speak about and to deal with. We didn't speak much about us but about everything we could think off stories, gossips, make ups, break ups... whatever that struck our mind for god sake we even spoke about future :P When I see a movie about great affection, care, fun of college friends I used to laugh not anymore.


Many things happened around us the tall tower, some kinda freaking show on modern education methods, malfunctioning fountains..... and yes dangling bushes of dark :P from whatever happened there or in our recent past we extracted only laughter. It was just magical purest form of tease and fun, no one was spared. Soon tummy bell rang dinner time, veteran Sathya suggested Karthick tiffin center which will not burn hole.


This tiffin stall had 2 branches in Anna nagar one in 3rd avenue(probably) crowed one other in Shanthi nagar a place were we can laught out loud. Obvious we went to unfamiliar 2nd branch filled the fuel. We all started to home with relaxed mind and preservable moments. :)

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