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Good to know about Ancestry

Probably I would have been in shorts and ungodly shirt when I last visited my native, 12 years back. All these years it has been don't worry about native years, because I'm in great confusion on which is my native 😅 So how can I relate this place to me? My Grandfather Palaniappa Pillai's hometown. My Father's Paternal Grandfather, Mr.Chokalingam Pillai got settled into Kumarapuram a village next to Tisaiyanvilai, Thirunelveli.

We were the affluent family from upper-caste Saiva Pillai, so we received a lot of respect, the family is referred to as 'Kanapillai kudumbam' and our home is referred to as 'Panna veedu'. More like 90's Tamil movies when elders from my family cross the street people used to remove slippers and keep their towel in the armpit or they tie it around the hip. It didn't last long just two generations,✌  a victory for equality! Even now the respect has not come down but idiotic 'remove chappal' rituals are skipped.

Mr Chokalingam Pillai had two sons Mr Muthaiya Pillai, the elder son who also settled in the same village to patronage the respect already established & Mr Palaniappan Pillai, the younger, my own grandfather who left the town for smooth relationship and settled in Devakottai, Ramanathapuram. But as descendants of Chokalingam Pillai my father and his brother gets similar to respect but not me, I'm total alien to that village.
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Shiva Family Tree, Updated on Jan 01 2013


Here is my family tree for simplification I have hidden many 😉.

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